The couples therapists listed on this page are based in or near Clapham, SW4/SW11 and are experienced in working with a wide range of relationship difficulties, from communication breakdown to trust issues and infidelity.
Therapy in Clapham
Clapham is a popular south London neighbourhood, straddling the boroughs of Lambeth and Wandsworth. It is known for Clapham Common, a large park that draws residents for leisure and outdoor activities. Clapham has excellent transport links via the Northern line at Clapham North, Clapham Common, and Clapham South stations, and is a hub for young professionals and families.
What is couples therapy?
Couples therapy is a form of therapy in which both partners attend sessions together to work through difficulties in their relationship. It can be useful at almost any stage — whether you are navigating a specific crisis such as an affair or a significant loss, struggling with recurring patterns like conflict or emotional distance, or simply wanting to deepen your connection before problems develop.
A couples therapist holds space for both perspectives without taking sides, helping each partner feel heard and understood. Couples therapy is not just for relationships in crisis — many couples find it a valuable space to develop more honest communication, rebuild intimacy, and understand each other more fully.
Nilima Choudhury
I’m a UKCP-registered Person-Centred Psychotherapist with experience across psychiatric half-way houses, NHS services, low-cost counselling…
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Letishea McLean
Over 15 years of clinical experience including the NHS, university environments, prison services, and private practice. These experiences…
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Manuel Navarro
I am a systemic and family psychotherapist with 20 years of experience working in mental health services in the NHS. I have worked with…
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Daisy Marsh
I am a dedicated therapist with experience in both online and face-to-face counselling. My focus lies in offering personalised support and…
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Lisa Romanova
I utilise evidence-based strategies, including CBT, attachment theory and EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) principles, to guide clients…
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Luisa Kos
I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist trained at WPF and Tavistock Relationships, and a registered member of the BACP. Since qualifying in…
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What to expect from couples therapy
Couples sessions typically last 60 to 90 minutes and involve both partners in conversation with the therapist. The therapist creates a safe structure for dialogue, helping you both explore what is not working, how patterns developed, and what each of you needs.
Common approaches include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which looks at attachment bonds and emotional needs, and systemic approaches that explore how family history and communication styles contribute to current difficulties. Some couples come to therapy to save a relationship; others use it to reach a clearer decision together. Either way, the focus is on honest, supported conversation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do both partners have to attend couples therapy?
Standard couples therapy involves both partners attending together. However, individual therapy can also be a useful way to explore relationship patterns when one partner is unwilling to attend, or as a complement to couples sessions.
How long does couples therapy take?
Many couples see meaningful improvement within 12 to 20 sessions. Some work through specific issues in a shorter time; others continue for longer to address deeper patterns. Your therapist will discuss pacing with you in the first session.
Can couples therapy save a relationship?
Couples therapy can significantly improve relationships — improving communication, rebuilding trust, and restoring connection. However, it is not guaranteed to save every relationship. Sometimes the most useful outcome is a clearer, more respectful decision about the future, made together.